How To be More Sexy – Latina Style
Latinas are sexy. We are highly popular in porn! How about spicing up your love life, with a little Latino flavor? Here's how to be sexy, Latina style:
1 – Womanly Mind
Latinas don't want to be like men. We want equal rights; we want to be as respected as them, but we don't want to be like them. We don't want to be treated as men. We're not men!
We are females, we're proud of that. We embrace everything that comes in the "female package": sweetness, sensibility, intuition, creativity, delicateness, motherhood, the ability to nurture others… everything.
We see men as partners; we believe partners should complement each other, not compete. We don't believe we need to compete with men, or act like them, to be appreciated, respected and valuable.
Tip: Let him be the man. Laugh at his jokes. Wait for him to open the door. Ask for his help.
2 – Body Language
As I've said before "Latinas are privileged women in this subject. We have a more free, expressive body language; we have friendly, warm personalities, and the way we move is a reflection of that."
We are not afraid of expressing our emotions through body language. We touch, we smile, we hug, we dance, we sway our hips. We talk loud, we scream when we're angry, we cry when we're sad. We walk as we where free women, because we are!
Tip: Let your emotions show in your body language. Don't restrain yourself with a polite varnish of demure; let your body tell the truth!
3 – Feminine Attire
We use a lot of skirts and dresses. Long or short, it doesn't matter; we love the most feminine outfit – the skirt. We also like colors; we're not afraid of wearing them. And the blouses… we love delicate, sexy blouses! A well dressed Latina is a feast to the eyes: some skin showing, thin strips over her shoulders, beautiful colors, curves and movement, maybe some embroidered detail…
Tip: Don't dress like a men, unless you can't avoid it. Don't dress as if you were going to a funeral, either.
4 – Strong Personality
We speak our mind. We're passionate and expressive about what we like or dislike. We demand what we need, and we're not shy of expressing our opinion. We know that a woman who shows her unique qualities is way more interesting, than a woman who always agree with everything and everybody.
We are not even ashamed when we express our need of protection, consolation, guidance, help or advice. Latinas don't think being vulnerable is a sign of weakness.
Tip:Tell what you really think. Ask for help. Be sincere and truthful; don't "go along" just because you're afraid of being different from the rest.
5 – Sexy Behavior
Latinas live in a permanent affair with life. We are naturally seductive; we flirt shamelessly. We know we are sexy, so we smile, walk, talk and dance as sexy women.
We know our man is delighted with our company, so we smile and look at his eyes, we laugh, we touch his arm, we play with our hair.
Tip: Be self-confident; you can't be sexy and insecure at once. Flirt with him; express your interest on him, through your behavior. Think naughty! 
Attention: none of the above statements means Latinas are submissive or promiscuous. We just see life through a more organic, harmonic and genuine point of view.
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October 13th, 2007 at 10:21 am
http://latinas-hablan.com – Latin American women talk about their relationships with white men.
October 13th, 2007 at 10:24 am
http://latinas-hablan.com – Latin American women talk about their relationships with white men.
April 11th, 2008 at 5:50 pm
Ummmm all women do these things if they are women, duh….. this is the stupidest shit ive ever read, we are special we are latina we are sexy we are lovers lolololol
March 8th, 2009 at 10:11 am
Despite the criticisms I see some truth in this. The Latin culture where passionate expression is displayed is manifested in your women.
March 8th, 2009 at 10:12 am
Despite the criticisms I see some truth in this. The Latin culture where passionate expression is displayed is manifested in your women,
June 22nd, 2009 at 10:47 pm
a lot of white women feel threatened by Latinas; its simply a statement of fact. As a man, you get tired of dealing with your fat pig of an american wife; you get tired of her endless bullshit; her dishonesty; her poor grooming; her threats, histrionics and intimidation; you get tired of dealing with the cunt. Most married men in North America are MISERABLE because of the smelly sociopath they married. Hence, Latinas become more and more appealing because they treat men like human beings, do not deride them for being male, and value having men around. this is the new trend and it is going to be all the rage moving forward.
Latinas win the reproductive sweepstakes
March 14th, 2010 at 5:08 am
I would like to ask questions about this. I am a white male currently in a relationship with a Mexican(Latina) woman. I treat this woman like she was whitegold wrapped around a nice shiny diamond and I shine her constantly. I make sure I talk her daily and take her to lunch everyday and shower her with beautiful gifts, including that diamond. But I have a dilemma, she is still with her husband although they are not together so to speak as far as sex or doing things together, she is waiting for the youngest child is almost out of highschool. Am I doing the right thing staying with her? We have been together for three years. I take her on vacations, buy her victoria secrets, clothes, I buy her kids christmas gifts as well as mine, I pay her bills too. She says all I have to do is take care of her and that her husband will take care of the childs actual needs and house bills, I just take care of her solely. What do you think????
September 8th, 2010 at 12:34 pm
oh Lord, atm I feel so proud of being latina.
we are unique!!!
November 2nd, 2010 at 10:44 am
This is such bull shit. I’m white and I’ve been with my Mexican fiance for five years and have kept him plenty satisfied. I always smell good, look great, cook for him, take care of him, and take great care of him. He has family members that are so shy and hide every bit of there body because they are not confident, so I don’t see why someone could say that every single latina is confident. And what white women can’t be all of these things, it’s just latinas? then I must be latina and didn’t know it because this article described me to a t. this is so stupid. not every latina is the same just because a big group of them are, just like not every white women is the same. so stop saying racist things and use your brain. Latinas are no better than white women get over it.
April 5th, 2011 at 7:18 am
i agree