Latinas are sexy. We are highly popular in porn! How about spicing up your love life, with a little Latino flavor? Here's how to be sexy, Latina style:

1 - Womanly Mind

Latinas don't want to be like men. We want equal rights; we want to be as respected as them, but we don't want to be like them. We don't want to be treated as men. We're not men!

We are females, we're proud of that. We embrace everything that comes in the "female package": sweetness, sensibility, intuition, creativity, delicateness, motherhood, the ability to nurture others... everything.

We see men as partners; we believe partners should complement each other, not compete. We don't believe we need to compete with men, or act like them, to be appreciated, respected and valuable.

Tip: Let him be the man. Laugh at his jokes. Wait for him to open the door. Ask for his help.

2 - Body Language

As I've said before "Latinas are privileged women in this subject. We have a more free, expressive body language; we have friendly, warm personalities, and the way we move is a reflection of that."

We are not afraid of expressing our emotions through body language. We touch, we smile, we hug, we dance, we sway our hips. We talk loud, we scream when we're angry, we cry when we're sad. We walk as we where free women, because we are!

Tip: Let your emotions show in your body language. Don't restrain yourself with a polite varnish of demure; let your body tell the truth!

3 - Feminine Attire

We use a lot of skirts and dresses. Long or short, it doesn't matter; we love the most feminine outfit - the skirt. We also like colors; we're not afraid of wearing them. And the blouses... we love delicate, sexy blouses! A well dressed Latina is a feast to the eyes: some skin showing, thin strips over her shoulders, beautiful colors, curves and movement, maybe some embroidered detail...

Tip: Don't dress like a men, unless you can't avoid it. Don't dress as if you were going to a funeral, either.

4 - Strong Personality

We speak our mind. We're passionate and expressive about what we like or dislike. We demand what we need, and we're not shy of expressing our opinion. We know that a woman who shows her unique qualities is way more interesting, than a woman who always agree with everything and everybody.

We are not even ashamed when we express our need of protection, consolation, guidance, help or advice. Latinas don't think being vulnerable is a sign of weakness.

Tip:Tell what you really think. Ask for help. Be sincere and truthful; don't "go along" just because you're afraid of being different from the rest.

5 - Sexy Behavior

Latinas live in a permanent affair with life. We are naturally seductive; we flirt shamelessly. We know we are sexy, so we smile, walk, talk and dance as sexy women.

We know our man is delighted with our company, so we smile and look at his eyes, we laugh, we touch his arm, we play with our hair.

Tip: Be self-confident; you can't be sexy and insecure at once. Flirt with him; express your interest on him, through your behavior. Think naughty! ;)

Attention: none of the above statements means Latinas are submissive or promiscuous. We just see life through a more organic, harmonic and genuine point of view.
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